Does my husband really want a divorce? Can I change his mind?

Is your marriage travelling down a bumpy road and you’re worried that your husband is thinking about asking for a divorce, but you want to repair your marriage?
Are you rarely or never having sex? a dull or lifeless sex life can be symptom of other problems in your marriage, if you’re always fighting and there’s no emotional connection, the sex is going to disappear as well.

But it can also be a problem of its own and lead to a marriage crisis, whether it’s caused by fading attraction or a low sex drive. Either way, a sexless marriage is almost always a marriage on the fast track to divorce, so if your husband seems uninterested in sex or makes excuses, that’s a clear indication of problems.

If your husband has become distant and stopped showing affection towards you, that can also be a strong indication that he is mentally starting to seperate himself from your marriage.

Often associated with this is an overall lack of emotional connection, a lack of willingness to discuss or show feelings and emotions and to even be around you in general. This is one of the most obvious signs that a marriage is headed in the wrong direction.  In most cases, it’s more a symptom than a root problem, and resolving the core issues of your marriage can usually help re-build the emotional connection and lead to your husband to begin showing affection again.

It is also no secret that an increase in the frequency and intensity of arguments with your husband is a clear indication that all is not well with your marriage.  There is no need to worry just because you and your husband have the odd arguement now and then, every married couple will disagree and have conflicts from time to time, this is a healthy thing, so long as they result in resolutions and or do not leave lingering hard feelings.

However if those arguments become daily occurrences, and tend to arise over almost anything, then that’s when things get a bit more dicey.  For example, if you arriving 5 minutes late for a dinner date turns into a massive screaming match and results in both of you going to bed angry for the third time in a week, then that’s a problem.

These kinds of arguments, if they happen frequently and tend to blow small grievances or disagreements way out of proportion, indicate that your marriage is headed in the wrong direction, and if so, you may need to learn how to prevent the useless arguments and have more important manage disagreements in a more civilized and constructive manner.

A more serious indication of an unhealthy marriage is when one or both of you stops trying to resolve conflict at all. If your husband seems to no longer care about the outcome of a fight, or if he seems to feel as though trying to find a solution to your problems is pointless or hopeless, then that can be a clear indication of deeper troubles.

When this kind of despair sets in, your husband may withdraw further and feel as though there will never be a way for the two of you to live together in peace.  That’s obviously not a good thing, and it’s something that you need to work on if this has become a problem in your marriage.

If through all of this your husband is staying out late more often, and showing less interest in you and or in spending time together, that may be an indication that he is unhappy with the situation at home.  It may also be that they’re preparing mentally for life apart, building a social life or possibly even dating. Hopefully that’s not the case.

Simply put, if you’re spending less time with your husband than you have in the past, and or if he seems distant and pre-occupied when you are spending time together, that can be a clear sign of a spouse mentally struggling with the decision to end your marriage.
If you have seen one or more of the indicators listed above in your husband recently, and you have that gut feeling that things aren’t on track with your marriage, then take a look at the free video by marriage guru Brad Browning, where he explains 3 techniques that will help you repair your relationship and how you can make your husband fall back in love with you, even if you feel your husband is not interested at the moment.
 
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